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WIN A R2000 Worth Of After Eden Lingerie
Guys Valentines Day is coming up, which means this couldn’t have come at a better time. Just imagine how chuffed your squeezer will be with R2000 worth of lacy stuff (I wouldn’t tell her you won it). But let’s be honest though, this competition isn’t only for the dudes, girls, I know you also want to get your hands on this. Imagine parading around in R2000 worth of lacy things for your dude this Valentines day. It’s a win win basically. Which brings me to the question, who is lingerie actually for?
Seriously, who is it really for. Girls say they like it because it makes them feel good about themselves, in front of guys. Guys buy it so their girls can feel good, but also because they know there’s little that can top a girl in heels and something very small and lacy. Underwear is basically a barrier, unless it’s lingerie, then it’s foreplay.
So that’s the question, and the competition entry. In the comment section below tell me who really benefits from lingerie, girls or guys. The best answer will receive a R2000 voucher from After Eden.
Go!
Nash…
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haha I see what you did there.
Hey Mike,
Well both of course, a woman for that sexy confident feeling. It also helps when you want to get what you want, even if it is more sexy undies. The more a man see this on a woman the more he is willing to spend. After all a man is all about vision. The female gender uses this to their advantage of course. You can’t just be pretty these days add a bonus and be clever. Don’t work hard with the guys work smart ladies… Answer BOTH
When it comes to the singles, which women won’t want to know that under her sexy outfit she has some racy lacy threads on to compliment her body. And what single guys doesn’t like seeing a woman so sure of herself that her outfit literally unzips itself.
No when you are in a relationship the woman always wants to please and wants to feel desired. My girlfriend has a rocking body and I love watching her doing her makeup and hair thing in her underwear. I still find myself staring after all this time and some After Eden lingerie will most definitely compliment the aesthetics of her beautiful body. Hopefully she can keep it on long enough
Guys, girls and Lingerie retailers all benefit but I think lingerie retailers benefit the most! ;o)
Girls feel and look really hot, no matter what their figure type when they wear sexy underwear. Something about lacy sexy lingerie just makes them feel like a million bucks and they ALWAYS get lucky when girls wear it.
Guys benefit from lingerie because they get to appreciate lady curves all nicely wrapped up (lingerie always leaves something to the imagination) and inevitably guys ALWAYS get lucky when chicks don those lingerie outfits!
Lingerie retailers like After Eden WIN hands down! They get to make lots of people VERY HAPPY (and I’m sure that is a GREAT feeling) cos we are all getting lucky when there’s lingerie involved! And they make a WAD of cash out of the whole selling lingerie business! A tiny piece of lace costs the same as a pair of really nice jeans…it’s a no brainer who is making the most money in the retail department! ;O)
Having said that tho, there’s just no getting lucky without it (Lingerie from After Eden!)
I say both male and female benefits
Girls. Definitely girls.
1. Even if the guy doesn’t know she’s wearing it, the girl does – which boosts confidence etc.
2. Lesbians. As far as partners are concerned, a woman in lingerie is sexy for both men and females. A man in a lacy g-string not so much.
3. We can buy it as a gift for our boyfriends. Yup, we can buy something for ourselves as a gift for someone else. Winning!
4. Lastly (albiet a bit of a mean one) if an obese woman buys herself a set of lingerie, she gets to benefit from the sexy feeling it gives her. The poor sod who sees in her said tiny garments, not so much.
Guys get the most benefit out of lingerie, especially if the girl makes the purchase herself. The guys basically just have to sit back enjoy and admire.
Silkworms
These least sexy maggots are fed their meal of choice day in, day out until they get to chill, transform into a dazzling winged creature, fly out to find their mate, mate, and then fall to earth to fertilise the mulberry groves in which they were born, thus completing the perfect circle of life.
If it weren’t for these fine creatures, we wouldn’t have natures finest threads to adorn the finest parts of the finest of our own species.
Were it not for own desires, these guys would be just another grub on edge of our biological conscience, only to be paid attention to by some nosey entymologist, who would write an obscure paper, to be published in some equally obscure journal.
Instead, they’re now the focal point of a massive agricultural industry, a source of income for rural folk, and a sound economic reason to nurture forests, and a celebrated substance to feel on our skin.
Silkworms have founded empires, but their value to us has allowed this humble insect to create an empire of it’s own, spanning the globe like the Romans never dreamed of. Perhaps only the honey bee can rival this.
They have turned the tides of battle, invoked the death penalty on those who would steal them, and twisted the hearts of many a strong man.
And all for our own folly.
If a girl feels sexy her pheromones work for the male species as well
I reckon its a win win situation. We feel sexy in nice undies, our men desire us and we love and enjoy been desired. Men adore a confident woman and find it a huge turn on…so at the end of the day we all benefit!!!!
Lingerie benefit both : Every girl can now be sexy,and every man can be in paradise
Well fitted, beautiful and sexy underwear makes a women feel confident in everything she does. And because of this men see that confidence as sexy and attractive before they even see the lingerie, and I’m sure even more so when they do. SO i think both men and women benefit from it. However being the women that gets to wear it and show it off (at some point) I would say women in my case, because everything is better when you feel good.
It’s the gift that keeps on giving…. boners, loving, confidence and saxiness! For girls and guys I’d say.
It is all about the men, they want their woman to look Crazy good and sexy!
Girls & Guys…Two can play that game;)
Guys benefit for sure. Im sure the girl gets excited and feels confident and sexy but in the end shes wearing it to impress and turn on her man. Its a win-win situation but in the end its all for the guy, to make him see his woman as beautiful and amazing as she really is. When it comes to love, everything is shared so in this case i believe the benefit is shared but for me, i get a lot of pleasure out of it so i would love to win this for my gorgeous girl
Both actually.
As woman tend to feel rather more sexier, confident and desired.
And men will be men!!! Lol!
Girls feel sexy and good about themselves, they like to look good and feel wanted by their man. I just want to see it (lingerie) on the floor! As far as who benefits more? Think the guy wins all the way, you have a girl in lingerie, feeling all hot and sexy, and a girl who feels good about herself is just what a guy needs and wants.
It really varies from person to person. If you’re the type of girl who’s shy and conservative, you’re not going to enjoy wearing lingerie and if your man is, then he probably won’t like it either, but if you’re a feisty girl who loves to experiment, look good and play around in your undies and your man is as adventurous and sexy as you are – hey then you’re both going to benefit for sure
Oooh I need to win this lingerie, I’m about to win over a really sexy guy to be my Valentine this weekend so would love to surprise him with some sexy undies xD
Definitely the girls!
Nothing makes you feel more sexy than knowing you’re wearing beautiful, sexy underwear.
A guy may enjoy to look, but the look on a guy’s face when he sees you wearing sexy underwear just makes you feel all the more SEXY!
Girls benefit. Wear After Eden and a man is reduced to a slushy, submissive heap. Everything about him goes soft – except what should not. Lingerie disarms every last bit of ego or selfishness in a man and puts him in a place of complete surrender, with or without his consent. It turns an everyday woman into an all-powerful queen, quietly but determinedly making her desires and demands known. Lingerie earns a woman the right to pleasurably and unapologetically torment someone. That is immense power. Who doesn’t love power?
Aw man … ME Definitely !!!
I think that lingerie benefits both girls and guys. Girls feel sexy in it, and guys like girls wearing it, but I also think that it can spice up a long standing relationships sex life. It adds that little bit of extra excitement and tantalization that can sometimes feel lost after a few years of being together.
The girl!! Wearing a sexy pair of matching lingerie make you feel good about yourself. You feel sassy, confident and classy. And when a woman feels that way she can conquer the world!!
Who run the world??? GIRLS!!!!
As a woman, I would definitely say that we ladies benefit most from beautiful underwear like that provided by AfterEden. No matter what kind of day I’ve had or what I’m wearing on the outside, if I can sexy underwear on, I feel sexy!!! It’s also always nice to feel confident and when you feel good, you look good and that also helps to attract good people and great vibes to your day
Although there are definite benefits for both, I would say we (woman) benefit more.
Lets face it, Lingerie is a hands down turn-on for both sexes and I’m sure men and woman alike all over the world are very grateful that such exquisite works of art exist in the underwear world. That said….we’re the ones that get to experience the feel of luxurious lace against skin, of well placed cups and curves that’s accentuate the best parts of our bodies and the confidence that brings with it. We’re the ones that get to carry the saucy secret that underneath our clothes we’re clad in gorgeous, sexy finery, making our inner goddess brim with an exhilarated joy. And of course last but not least we’re the ones who get to see the look on your (our partner’s) faces when you slowly peel us out of it…….
Hmm… Interesting question. I would definitely say both! One, the girl benefits cos she gets to feel super sexy in front of her man showing it all off, plus getting him all hot and heavy
Two, the guy gets a good show watching his girl strut around in her lacy, racy lingerie, making him appreciate what he’s got. Totally win – win!
Plus, if you both go shopping, the guy gets to have a say something that he really likes, but then has to wait with anticipation for her to show it off to its full advantage, and in my opinion, going shopping with my guy for lingerie is hot!
A woman has more more of a variety than men
Well I think both, for us girls it gives us confidence to look good for our men and seduce them. As for men, well they are like kids in a candy store when they see their women in lingerie (the littler the better) they just melt away & they are happy…
I feel both benefit, the lady feels super sexy in lingerie and it gives you that extra bit of confidence becuase you feel sexy. For the guys out there who doesn’t love seeing their lady in sexy lingerie, it shows that wants to impress you by showing she puts effort in the bedroom.
#fingerscrossed
Both do, she loves to put it on and you love to take it off. That can carry on the whole night long
It’s for women (and their partners, lovers, husbands) who’ve had a kid and aren’t ready for a boob job but need some extra help in the gravity division. And thank God for After Eden because they’ve added extra padding where we need it most on a bra….
I’d say the guys benefit by getting a huge, um, ego boost because I cannot imagine a more beautiful sight than a confident woman wearing gorgeous lingerie.
If a woman makes the effort to slip on her lacy brassiere & knickers for you, it means she’s into you.
And guys, if you have the privilege of coming face to face with such a visual pleasure, then my friend, you have won. Take a bow!
Personally i think it benefits both guys and girls.
I think for shy girls it can give just that little boost of confidence, knowing that underneath that conservative front there is something lacy and sexy.
Confident girls just love to have that something sexy to show off with to their lovers/partners.
A girl always feels sexy when she’s wearing something sexy underneath her clothes.
Guys of course get the best benefit in my opinion. What guy can resist a girl in a little lacy number?
Guys love to look… A little peep of something lacy will always leave him hungering for more.
Nothing seems to make a man happier than seeing his girl looking confident and oh so sexy in a lacy number, that he knows she’s wearing just for him.
Definitely the Hubby
It’s definitely a win-win for him & her… What better feeling than wearing gorgeous, well-made, well-fitting lingerie? It makes you feel sexier & act sexier… Lucky man! But ladies, don’t tell me you don’t enjoy his reaction just as much as he enjoys seeing you in it…
Well both of course, a woman for that sexy confident feeling. It also helps when you want to get what you want, even if it is more sexy undies.Guys of course get the best benefit in my opinion. What guy can resist a girl in a little lacy number?
Guys love to look… A little peep of something lacy will always leave him hungering for more.Nothing seems to make a man happier than seeing his girl in a lacy number, that he knows she’s wearing just for him.
I say women benefit from it the most. Yes, men do find it devouring but they also find fully clothed women to be devouring.
Women on the other hand need a lot more to be devoured and if she is feeling sexy then she has more chances of being devoured and really enjoying herself.
Definitely girls more so than guys. Yes, a guy loves a girl in sexy lingerie, no doubt about that!
Gorgeous lingerie gives a girl a sense of confidence, whether it be in the bedroom or just in a normal day, wearing it (whether anyone can see it or not!) makes you feel extra-desirable and good about yourself. And guys of course love a confident woman.. Win-win for both!!
I believe that sexy lingerie is firstly for a woman, she needs no excuse to make herself feel good and lingerie definately does that for any woman. She benifits because lingerie boasts her confidence and adds that special factor to her already beautiful body! Secondly no one can deny that men love lingerie as they are visually stimulated so Yes guys do benifit ALOT! The low down is that Lingerie is something both men & women enjoy! Its beautiful and realli is that special item to be enjoyed! Nt forgetting that After Eden Lingerie is the best!
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Well said @Charis & I totally agree!
I couldnt hv said it better myself @ Charis! Lingerie is definately that special factor to be enjoyed by both
On the nail @CHARIS
I must agree definitely BOTH hubby and wife .. But also more so us woman, it just makes us feel so so confident and real good about ourselves especially knowing that our spouse enjoys it, gives it that extra bonus
… And for the singles aswel, it just gives you that awesome feeling of being in control while wearing something real good! Before you about to shower, you take out that special piece of sassyness and you so much want to hurry and shower just to slip into that comfy and “I feel like a real woman” piece 
.. Feels fabulous after a long, stressful day!
I’ve asked this question to guys many a time. Some say if it makes the girl feel sexy why not, others say its just another obstacle.
My personal opinion is that lingerie is like wrapping paper.
It’s just no fun getting a gift and its not wrapped up. You want to take a peep under the wrapping, trek the toutjies to loosten the wrapping. Slowly building up the anticipation..dropping one strap..snapping one clip..hands starting to shake with excitement..heart racing..
Like Alice Cooper said “Black Lace on Sweat”
So at the end of the day who is it really for? Every guy that just pictured himself slipping the lingerie off that hot chick, and for every chick that pictured her lingerie being slipped off by that hot guy…
I vote for Melissa Bailey…we need more people like her populating this planet. My fondest memory of the said apparel was when I was 15…visiting my friend for the weekend..walked into the kitchen to get a glass of water…and there was his mom…in the kitchen, reaching up into the cupboard in this lacy see-through number. I just stood there, not moving…and when she turned around, all I could muster is “h-hello”…she grabbed the bottle of champagne, smiled at me and walked off into the hallway. I never told my mate of what I saw that night..that would not be fair…but that scene is engrained in memory. Have seen many a gf in her lingerie after that…and even though they looked hot as hell…they don’t compare to what adolescent me saw 13 years ago. God bless lingerie
Thanks jackblack
us girls in our lingerie aim to please..hehe
So here’s a little 50 Shades of sexy underwear story: He was in ecstasy, with a huge smile on his face, as his wife moved forwards, then backwards, forward, then backwards again ……. back and forth ….. back and forth ….. in and out ….. in and out.
She could feel the sweat on her forehead and between her breasts, and trickling down the small of her back, she was getting near to the end.
Her heart was pounding … her face was flushed … then she moaned, softly at first, then began to groan louder.
Finally, totally exhausted, she let out an almighty scream and shouted…
OK! I can’t park the bl**** car! You do it, you SMUG bastard”. But she didn’t let that ruin the rest of her day because she then remembered that she was wearing her luscious lacy red lingerie, so she held her head up high and instantly felt confident, sexy and drop dead gorgeous. So I would say girls are the ones who really benefit!
I’d say that the girls benefit most, yes guys have something sexy to look at before hand, but the girlsput it on and feel confident and sexy because they are still wearing something but they know that they look extremely sexy which means that they’re benefiting the most
Girls!
There’s nothing like new lingerie shopping.
You feel sexcy and confident.
Every girl has a ‘brighten my day’ pair of lingerie.
It’s even better when it matches (:
I benefit the most when my wife wears lingerie, because I know her intentions are to make me want to be intimate with her. While it may make her feel sexy (which I am all for) I know that her primary concern is to serve and love me and she knows that appealing to me in a visual manner is not only important, but also does the trick. This attitude in itself could possibly be more important than the actual lingerie, but there’s nothing better than a bit of lace to get the party started…
Great question Nash. Made me think about it a bit more.
definately for Both
I say my husband definately!! He buys them and then puts then in a special place in my closet so wen I gt home afta a long bath I knw exactly what I gotta wear lol it also helps lift the mood an adds that extra spice 2 ur marriage!!
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Sexy win-win scenario:
She has on her After Eden lingerie under her LBD, it’s her sexy secret. She feeling sensual, confidence and her hip swinging stride just oozes sex appeal. Her eyes and her smile whispers secrets.
He cannot resist the intrigue and mysterious appeal of her, her sexy walk and promises in her eyes. Have him stategizing on how soon he can get her home.
She’s feeling like a goddess, powerful, attractive, sexy and downright irresistable. She has noticed that how his hot and bothered eyes have been trailing her everywhere.
He wants to know all her secrets, the anticipation is killing him.
She’s mentally choosing which Berry White song to play on the background to accompany the candles while she toys with her glass. Imagines the sound her stilletos will make as she leaves the bathroom in her racy red satin smooth After Eden lingerie edged with white delicate lace, as she she stares in his eyes across the restuarant table. Her red lips move in a hint of a smile as he adjust his collar. She thinks of her options -Tease him with a slow removal of her sinful sexy lingerie while sensually moving to the Berry’s deep smooth baritone? Or let him rip it all off with his teeth?
The look in his eyes promises the latter, but she ain’t concerned. After all, after they have both reached Eden, a couple of time. She knows he’ll be begging for more After Eden lingerie. And a girl can never have too much sexy frothy lacy lingerie.
Perhaps they will choose black this time.
Both, twiddle dee & twiddle dum
Lol
Global warming & Armageddon. She knows when she’s wearing it and he’s seen it- she becomes the only girl on th planet. Lingerie is probably going to be the pillar behind the continuation of the human race!
sexy lingerie is DEFINITELY for the ladies, yes both men and women benefit but we do not know what will happen tomorrow, tonight or six months from now. The guy we wear that silky thong for might not be there tomorrow- people are unpredictable- but the way sexy undies make you feel will last when he doesn’t. Yes he might appreciate it but EMPOWERMENT is a drug no man can resist and empowerment is what we women get by wearing sexy lingerie, whether we wear it under a beautiful off the shoulder LBD or a pair of old sweats. We will always feel confident.
Sasha Guitry, the famous French film director and actor, summed up the illicit affair in an interview regarding his position on women. He was asked, “Are you still currently against women and if so why?” To which he replied, “les femmes, je suis contre… tout contre.” (I am against women, right up against them – that is physical proximity) Lingerie is put on by women and taken off by men!
girls benefit they sexier more confident happier
When I buy underwear (let’s face it there’s no lingerie for 40E – only some very lacy bra’s) I try to imagine how my hubby would see me in them while he’s undressing me. Will they revolt him and he will suddenly develope a migraine or will he linger before taking it off… savouring how I look in them. Or will he choose the 3rd option – rip them off me! I do not like buying new bra’s and panties every other day because Hubby tore them off, so I try to keep within the margins of sexy, kinky and seductive and shy, playful and teasing. No one else sees my unmentionables so off course I only by them for him. But when I wear them I feel sexy, even if I’m at home waiting for him to come home from work. Serving him his dinner, I just ever so ofter let him have a peek of what’s is in store for that night – Promises hiding underneath my clothes
So yes… I would say it benefits both. He has never bought me any delicates and I think I am quite turned on by the idea of him picking something that he thinks is sexy… Memo to self: Demand Hubby goes shopping!
Hey Guys,
So I’ve compiled my top 10 reasons that lingerie benefits both sexes equally… Here goes:
1.) Beautiful lingerie will make you appreciate yourself more. When you invest the time and effort to get and wear lovely lingerie, it is your vote that you are worth it!
2.) Lingerie will give your guy even more eye candy. You’re obviously more than enough, but guys are extremely visual, so the lingerie is a way to offer him a different surprise every time your clothes come off.
3.) You’ll look better, both to yourself and to other people! Beautiful lingerie isn’t just made out of the smallest amount of cloth available, after all.
4.)Increased self confidence comes with great lingerie. It’s a proven fact – when you love yourself, you feel more confident and capable of taking on more.
5.) Lingerie gives you a more passionate lifestyle! Don’t sit and wait for your partner to get you the pieces you’ve always wanted. Lingerie is empowering and uplifting, and can inspire your life to a higher level!
6.) Lingerie works for everybody. You might think that only young, thin, model-like figures will work well in lingerie, but you’d be wrong. It’s not all barely there, figure skimming garments, though there are plenty of those, too.
7.) The benefits of lingerie aren’t just for the bedroom. Even when you’re in jeans and a tee-shirt, or wearing your work clothes, a great set of underthings can give you all the benefits it offers in the bedroom.
You’ll think about how great you look and feel, and it’ll put a little extra bounce of confidence and happiness in your step!
8.) Lingerie is romantic. It’s those little touches that really matter in a relationship; when you stick to the practical, foregoing the romantic, you lose something from your life.
9.) You’ll be more comfortable. It’s a fact – as we age, we become victims of gravity, and some of the looks we used to love just aren’t as comfortable or attractive as they used to be. Flimsy garments rub and bunch, and we don’t feel our best.
That’s where high quality supportive lingerie comes in! It doesn’t just make us look better – it provides the support we need to feel better, too. You’ll never go back, once you’ve had a bra that really fits, or a shaper that makes you feel hugged from all sides.
10.) You’ll improve your sex life! A bold statement, but it’s true!
It’s not the lingerie itself that does it, of course, it’s the feeling of being attractive and the interest you have in yourself and your partner, that comes from wearing great lingerie.
A little silk and satin could be what you need to raise the temperature of your love life!
Help me spoil my loved one with some of your amazing lingerie this valentines day and who knows, you could be on your way to improving more than 10 crucial factors in our lives.
its for the girls , but meant for the guys c”,)…like its mine but actually yours lol.you dont get the candy without unwrapping it first *wink*
I say Both, men and woman.Men love sexy lingerie and a woman who has it on drives them crazy and woman who wear it feel sexy and confident in it.
Its for the girls cos it makes you feel confident and super sexy, its also for the guys cos it makes them feel confident and macho to have a sexy women all dressed in lingerie for them to admire.
I would say both! A beautiful set of lingerie is enough too make any girl feel sexy and oh so confident! Men especially love a confident woman as well! So it Definitely benefits both parties the woman feels like a sexy hot temptress and the guy well besides having lots of eye candy to look at, has a beautiful sexy confident woman to unmask!
I think definately for the girls…….we love to feel the soft lace against us and what lady doesnt love to take off her cloths and have a sexy pair of underwear on……
aside from the usual benefits such as being a confidence booster for the ladies who don themselves with only the finest lace and bondage apparel – but also then men who get to fest their eyes on such wonderment [and not forgetting the daring ones who try on some of it from themselves!]
the real beneficiaries from lingerie are both men and woman. Its honestly the biggest win – win situation you can imagine. whether it be a woman putting it on so her man can take it off, a woman putting it on so her woman can take it off.. or any other combination you can imagine – lingerie is put on to be removed.
Lingerie lets the wearer be whatever they want for as long at they wear it..and when they take it off, well, that’s when things get a bit better I’d say.
EVERYONE IS A WINNER!
I doubt this will be the ‘best’ answer amongst all the essays of revelations but here goes.
Girls.
Because: I’m (newly and miserably) single and sexy lingerie makes my too-big bum and boobs look better. Therefore boosting my self esteem without wearing it for a guy. Girls also just like to have things. All the things. Even unnecessary things. And it’s not everyday that you can fill your undies drawer with quality knickers and bras.
Also, After Eden is one of the very few brands who make bras in my impossible size.
Plus, my Valentines day will pretty much consist of couching with my kitten while my parents go out to celebrate their wedding anniversary -Ugh.
Treat me?
Sexy lingerie on a personal level is more for me, I feel naughty yet innocent at the same time, because Im still fully “clothed”…and wearing lingerie underneath my clothes be it a LBD or sweats makes me feel confident and yummy
Girls most definately benefit more…
We know how to make men drool and it makes us feel like we have a hard-on, a hard-on of empowerment! Because we know we can get anything our little hearts desire when we’re standing in front of a guy wearing lingerie and stilettos. Suddenly a question like, “babe, i want to go to the Bahamas,” doesn’t lead to, “Do you think money grows on trees?”
Also, we get to buy ourselves lingerie as a present for our partners &they love it! Now thats just the coolest thing ever!
a girl only flirts with a guy when she feels good; if guys want girls to be more forward – we need good underwear
Seeing that this will be my first Valentines’ Day as a married man, I damn well hope that I will benefit the most from sexy lingerie….
Sexy lingerie is more fun and sexy. It looks and feels stunning. Sexy lingerie is romantic.
Both men and women benefit from lingerie.
If you have been together for a long time it can ignite the spark again for both men and women.
It makes Men feel flattered when Women make the effort.
Women must always remember that Men are very visual.
Women feel sexy, it looks good and feels good. It is a confidence booster, makes you feel naughty and lifts your mood, makes things fun and helps get rid of inhibitions.
Overall I would say more benefits for Women but Men get to enjoy it too when there is a more confident partner because they feel sexy.